Monday, May 30, 2011

What Aristotle has to do with Tiger Woods and the story of the world.


"The derivation of the word “character” comes from an ancient Greek term referring to the indelible marks stamped on coins. Once character was pressed into your mind or soul, people assumed it was fixed. But what modern science repeatedly shows is that this just isn’t the case. As we discuss in our book, everyone’s moral behavior is much more variable than any of us would have initially predicted.” ~ David DeSteno

The dichotomy of good and evil is as old as the story of the world, and timeless in its relevance to just about everything we do in life, from our political and spiritual views to our taste in music, art and literature to how we think about our simple dietary choices. But while most of us recognize that these concepts of good and bad aren’t always black-and-white categories, we never cease to be surprised when someone or something we’ve perceived as “good” does or becomes something we perceive as “bad,” from an esteemed politician’s transgression to a beloved celebrity’s slip into addiction or scientology or otherwise socially undesirable behavior.

In Out of Character: Surprising Truths About the Liar, Cheat, Sinner (and Saint) Lurking in All of Us, researchers David DeSteno and Piercarlo Valdesolo explore this curious disconnect through the rigorous lens of science. Drawing on their research at the Social Emotions Lab at Northeastern University, the authors offer a fascinating yet highly readable perspective on the psychology of the hero/villain spectrum of human character, inviting us to reconceive personality, both our own and that of others, with a more balanced moral view that reflects the fluidity of human psychology.

Friday, April 8, 2011

close up

Tom Watson

To have that sense of one’s intrinsic worth which constitutes self-respect is potentially to have everything: the ability to discriminate, to love and to remain indifferent. To lack it is to be locked within oneself, paradoxically incapable of either love or indifference. If we do not respect ourselves, we are on the one hand forced to despise those who have so few resources as to consort with us, so little perception as to remind blind to our fatal weaknesses. On the other, we are peculiarly in thrall to everyone we see, curiously determined to live out-since our self-image is untenable-their false notions of us. We flatter ourselves by thinking this compulsion to please others an attractive trait: a gist for imaginative empathy, the evidence of our willingness to give. Of course I will play Francesca to your Paolo, Hellen Keller to anyone’s Annie Sullivan. No expectation is too misplaced, no role too ludicrous. At the mercy of those we cannot but hold in contempt, we play roles doomed to failure before they are begun, each defeat generating fresh despair at the urgency of diving and meeting the next demand made upon us.

-Joan Didion, Slouching Towards Bethlehem

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

orange you glad


Charlotte and Bente





























Make up and Hair: Beatriz Matallana using L'Oréal Paris
Assistants: Nectami Comesaña / Gorka López
Models: Charlotte Bos and Bente Hansen (Union Models)

Sunday, March 27, 2011

We pray for Andi


Andi este unul dintre oamenii, care si-au petrecut fiecare secunda din viata traind-o…. Are 25 de ani, este absolvent al Universitatii Politehnica Bucuresti, joaca baschet de 12 ani, canta, danseaza, merge cu bicicleta, rade, glumeste, reuseste ca prin fiecare gest si vorba a lui sa alunge supararea din sufletul oricaruia, iubeste, radiaza prin intreaga lui fiinta un volum enorm de energie indeajuns sa alimenteze intregul glob, chiar si pentru o zi. El este Andi, Andrei Teodoroiu, fiu, frate, iubit, prieten. El este Andi si are cancer.

more on -> http://andreiteodoroiu.wordpress.com/

God Bless Andi! Stay strong!